Kawan Buat Perangai?

Apa yang patut dilakukan apabila kawan anda buat perangai?

 



 

CONTOH SITUASI :

 

1. Dia selalu meminjam barang anda.

 

Bukannya selalu, tapi hampir setiap kali ! Bengangnya ! Kalau dia tu tak berkemampuan, bersabarlah sikit. Apa salahnya tolong kawan, kan ? Tapi kalau dia mampu beli barang tu dan masih buat muka tak malu, cuba ikut langkah penyelesaian ini.

 

Penyelesaian :

• Mungkin anda terpaksa 'bohong sunat' sikit, cakaplah "Sorry, saya nak guna barang ini, jadi tak boleh nak bagi awak pinjam".
• Berterus-terang je : "Sorry, saya tak nak pinjamkan barang ini pada awak".

2. Dia menjangkakan anda akan buat semua yang dia mahu.

 

Sesekali tak salah, tapi kalau dah selalu sangat, tak salah kalau anda nak suarakan hak anda. Aku ni kawan, bukannya kuli.

 

Penyelesaian :

• "Sorry, saya tak rasa nak buat apa yang awak nak sekarang".

 

3. Dia kutuk orang lain.

 

Ini yang selalu menjadi dilemma, nak dibiarkan, takut berdosa. Kalau ditegur, nanti bermasam muka dan 'perang dingin'.

 

Penyelesaian :

• Jelaskan bahawa anda hormat kepada orang tersebut (yang dikutuk) dan beritahu bahawa anda tak nak terlibat sekali dalam mengutuknya.

4. Dia nak tiru kerja sekolah anda.

 

Whoaa ! Bahaya ! Kalau 'terkantoi', memang buruk akibatnya. Kalau kawan anda tak tahu, apa salahnya ajar dia.

 

Penyelesaian :

 

• Beritahu bahawa ianya sangat ketara apabila seseorang meniru.
• Yakinkan bahawa dia mampu melakukannya tanpa meniru.

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh . . .

Ya ALLAH ! Lamanya tak update blog. Kali terakhir update, tahun lepas (kalau tak silap laa) . . . Itu pun sibuk dengan hal lain. Maklum laa, tahun lepas aku bertungkus-lumus struggle untuk SPM. Sekarang nie, bila dah habis SPM, baru laa terasa ringan sikit beban di kepala dan bahu.

Heheh . . . sebenarnya, aku langsung dah tak ingat apa lagi pasal SPM . . Semua fakta-fakta penting yang aku dah belajar selama nie dah melayang jauh dari aku.

Now, walaupun aku dah habis sekolah dan masih menganggur, masih takde masa nak update blog kesayangan aku nie. Hari nie, 10hb Februari 2014, barulah aku dapat melawat blog sendiri..

Tapi takpe, lepas nie aku akan cuba untuk tulis lebih banyak post yang menarik. Mungkin aku jarang ceritakan pasal life aku, yalah, kalau semuanya nak diceritakan, takde privacy laa . . (ecehh, bajet je)

BaldiGambar#9 : Bento

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh . . .

Sedikit info pasal bento yang sangat popular di Jepun .





 



Bento (弁当, bentō) is a single-portion takeout or home-packed meal common in Japanese cuisine. A traditional bento holds rice, fish or meat, with pickled or cooked vegetables, usually in a box-shaped container. Containers range from disposable mass produced to hand crafted lacquerware. Bento boxes are readily available in many places throughout Japan, including convenience stores, bento shops (弁当屋, bentō-ya), railway stations, and department stores. However, Japanese homemakers often spend time and energy on a carefully prepared lunch box for their spouse, child, or themselves.

Bento can be elaborately arranged in a style called "kyaraben" ("character bento"). Kyaraben are typically decorated to look like popular characters from Japanese cartoons (anime), comic books (manga), or video games. Another popular bento style is "oekakiben" or "picture bento". This is decorated to look like people, animals, buildings and monuments, or items such as flowers and plants. Contests are often held where bento arrangers compete for the most aesthetically pleasing arrangements.

There are similar forms of boxed lunches in the Philippines (Baon), Korea (Dosirak), Taiwan (Pientang), and India (Tiffin). Also, Hawaiian culture has adopted localized versions of bento featuring local tastes after over a century of Japanese influence in the islands.

 

 

 



Types of Bento

• Shōkadō bentō (松花堂弁当) is a traditional black-lacquered Japanese bento box.
• Chūka bentō (中華弁当) are filled with Chinese food. While Chinese do have cold plates, it is more for appetizers or midnight "snack".
• Kamameshi bentō (釜飯弁当) are sold at train stations in Nagano prefecture. It is cooked and served in a clay pot. The pot is a souvenir item.
• Makunouchi bentō (幕の内弁当) is a classic style of bento with rice, a pickled ume fruit (umeboshi), a slice of broiled salmon, a rolled egg, etc.
• Noriben (海苔弁) is the simplest bento, with nori dipped in soy sauce covering cooked rice.
• Sake bentō (鮭弁当) is a simple bento with a slice of broiled salmon as the main dish.
• Shidashi bentō (仕出し弁当) is made in a restaurant and delivered during lunch. This bento is often eaten at a gathering like a funeral or a party. It is usually packed with traditional Japanese foods like tempura, rice and pickled vegetables. A shidashi bento packed with European-style food is also available.
• Tori bento (鳥弁当) consists of pieces of chicken cooked in sauce served over rice. It is a popular bento in Gunma prefecture.
• Hinomaru bento (日の丸弁当) is the name for a bento consisting of plain white rice with an umeboshi in the centre. The name was taken from the Hinomaru, the Japanese flag, which has a white background with a red circle in the centre. Pure Hinomaru bento only consists of rice and umeboshi to flavor rice without any other side dishes. The metal bento boxes, once popular in Japan, were often corroded by the acid of umeboshi, eventually making a hole in the middle of the lid.
• Hokaben (ホカ弁) is any kind of bento bought at a take-out bento shops. Freshly cooked hot (hokahoka) rice is usually served with freshly prepared side dishes. The name was popularized after a pioneering take-out bento franchise in the field, Hokka Hokka Tei
• Hayaben (早弁), literally "early bento", is eating a bento before lunch, and having another lunch afterward.
• Ekiben is a bento sold at railway stations (eki) or onboard trains. There are many kinds of ekiben. Most are inexpensive and filling.
• Soraben is a bento sold at airports for eating on an airplane.